Out of the Frying Pan, 2004 Sandblasting on mirror, frying pans, men’s belts 46” x 66” © Beth Grossman 2004 Seven frying pans are hung from men’s belts. Text from The Total Woman, written by Marabel Morgan in 1970 as a response to the feminist movement, is sandblasted into round mirrors stuck in the pan. As viewers read the text, they will see themselves in the mirrors. I ask them to take a look at how much has changed and improved as a result of feminism, and to consider how much remains the same within the male/female relationship. Text in frying pans: “The days were sunny, the nights were star-studded. Indeed married life was strawberries for breakfast and loving all the time.” “Many a husband rushes off to work, leaving his wife slumped over a cup of coffee in her grubbie undies. His once sexy bride is now wrapped in rollers and smells like bacon and eggs. All day long he’s surrounded at the office by dazzling secretaries who emit clouds of perfume.” “The typical American housewife begins each day with every good intention. As soon as her husband and kids are out the door, she nobly faces the disaster areas.” “She may whine, play the martyr, or escape with her box of bonbons to her favorite soap opera. When the kids come home at three o’clock, she screams at them because she’s mad at herself.” “The woman who would never think of serving the same frozen TV dinners every evening sometimes serves the same frozen sexual response every night.” “Would he pick you for his mistress? A mistress seduces. A housefrau submits. We all know who gets the most goodies.” “It’s only when a woman surrenders her life to her husband, reveres and worships him and is willing to serve him, that she becomes really beautiful to him. She becomes a priceless jewel, the glory of femininity, his queen!”
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